The biggest check of knowing whether a person is true in his or her claims about loving you is to see if he does love him/ herself or not? Wanting some one is not love. Its cathexis. Not being able to live without some one is again not love. It’s parasitism. We cannot love others,… Continue reading
Here is it how it goes. We all claim love or have claimed to love some one in the past. And our first expectation is to know whether the other person loves us back or not, and when we do not receive love back the way we want to, we feel disappointed, unhappy,depressed and sad.
I have met people numbering to literally tens of hundreds saying, quoting, referring, uttering, mumbling and in all manners of vocal expression commenting: we don’t believe if real love exists ? I have observed them, asked more questions from such people. Or they avoid love because they know it would end in some thing unwanted,… Continue reading
We need to talk. We need to be heard. And we are frustrated, angry, unhappy, full of resentment. And we go to an old friend, whom we meet not very often but for some unknown reason consider him an old friend. And he sits us in. Closes the door. Asks his wife to attend his… Continue reading
During my seminars and training sessions on love, I often ask one question, a very simple question but that truly reflects a lot about us as being loving sons and daughters. I ask: Do you know the color of your mother’s eyes? Surprisingly, most of us are not sure or just guess. If you do… Continue reading
Once one of my very good friends got really upset from me. I thought it was her mistake and she was sure it was mine. We did really say things to each other that were not supposed to be said. We stopped talking. We lost the trust. The communication ended ! But nothing faded in… Continue reading
Some years back, I completely lost some thing that greatly helped me transform into some one, which later inspired me to start another blog: happiest man on earth. I lost my will to convince others of my opinion. I stopped going into discussions. I stopped asking questions that were intended to bring the other person… Continue reading
In our lives, the frequent problem isn’t not loving. It is loving not enough! We love ourselves enough to appear in a party well dressed and perfumed, yet we do not love ourselves enough to work out. We love ourselves enough to see and find out if some one loves us, we do not love… Continue reading
Have we ever thought about from where we get information about love? Mostly it is from media, movies, romance literature and magazines. Each designed to generate and capture a certain audience. What is the authenticity of the information? Perhaps None. Just because some thing has been widely spread, we tend to accept it.
If you ever made a mistake, a huge mistake and you do not know how to make it right, do the following: 1. Go to that person and with every nerve you have and with every corner of your heart seek forgiveness. 2. Tell that person that you did wrong. And that you are sorry…. Continue reading