Some times we are stuck in ourselves, focusing so much on problems of self that we miss to see our connection with the outer world.
My car broke down, he did not celebrate my birthday the way he used to, my life is getting out of control, my job makes me depressed, I should buy a new car, it is all my, mine and I.
The reality is that we cannot be seen without context. We cannot walk on nothing. We have to have foot paths. We have to have earth below our feet to walk well enough. We cannot ignore the environment.
We are the environment. Just need to see the bigger picture.